tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post112966472251682371..comments2023-09-05T16:22:15.151+02:00Comments on Martinis For Two: A Heavy HeartDiane Mandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00059365308496711788noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1130204155230411062005-10-25T03:35:00.000+02:002005-10-25T03:35:00.000+02:00Thank you, Xavier.Thank you, Xavier.Diane Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00059365308496711788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1130197633380856612005-10-25T01:47:00.000+02:002005-10-25T01:47:00.000+02:00Prayers. Your friend, and all those that love her ...Prayers. Your friend, and all those that love her have been in my prayers....<BR/><BR/>KEEP THE FAITH!Xavierismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16350217114920682575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1130182186411832032005-10-24T21:29:00.000+02:002005-10-24T21:29:00.000+02:00I want tot hank everyone for their thoughts and ki...I want tot hank everyone for their thoughts and kind words. The news of my friend has become even worse. Doctor's cannot guarantee that she will even live a month. At this point, Vin and I spend as much time as we can with her. Time is so very precious.<BR/><BR/>Thank you all again, your support has meant a lot to us.Diane Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00059365308496711788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1130038918481152252005-10-23T05:41:00.000+02:002005-10-23T05:41:00.000+02:00I am really not good with these types of things, b...I am really not good with these types of things, but I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers. You and Vin too.Tiffany Fairbankshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07779595272291288585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1129954745265958942005-10-22T06:19:00.000+02:002005-10-22T06:19:00.000+02:00I'm sorry to hear about your friend. I know I onl...I'm sorry to hear about your friend. I know I only met her that one time. She is the sweetest person I ever met. Please let her know that she is in my prayers. <BR/><BR/>Hang in there Di. If you need a shoulder to lean on I'm there for you. Just give me a ring.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1129951535644357272005-10-22T05:25:00.000+02:002005-10-22T05:25:00.000+02:00Hold her hand, tell her you love her and pray for ...Hold her hand, tell her you love her and pray for her to be in a peaceful state of mind. And when we go to Montas--hoist a drink in her honor.SassyAssyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03916026186198052226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1129942540448408982005-10-22T02:55:00.000+02:002005-10-22T02:55:00.000+02:00I'm so sorry about your friend. Cancer. The word c...I'm so sorry about your friend. Cancer. The word continues to haunt me even though I'm a cancer survivor. <BR/><BR/>All I can say is to offer your support and love and remind your friend that she had purpose in this world. Remind her of her value...and what she gave to others in this life. Say what you've always wanted to say but never did. I'm glad you and Vin will be her angels on earth. <BR/><BR/>She will be in my prayers...as all those that have been touched by your friend....<BR/><BR/>Muah**********Xavierismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16350217114920682575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1129932737823467542005-10-22T00:12:00.000+02:002005-10-22T00:12:00.000+02:00I am so sorry for your friend. The best advice I ...I am so sorry for your friend. The best advice I can give is to be there. Don't run away from her. Practical things are the best--offer to watch the kids, bring meals, bring books, drive her to the hospital--take on some of those necessary, tedious day-to-day things if you can. You may not do exactly the right thing, but being there shows that you care. Sometimes being quiet with someone is the best thing. You'll know what to do if you listen to your gut. It's ok to be sad and cry--that's how you feel. <BR/><BR/>Take care. Hope you and Vin are holding up ok.Jamyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17328884172511150275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1129820284121149532005-10-20T16:58:00.000+02:002005-10-20T16:58:00.000+02:00That really sucks. For her obviously, but also he...That really sucks. For her obviously, but also her kids and family, you, Vin and the rest of her friends. Cancer is always a horrible thing but even worse when it hits a person that young.<BR/><BR/>My closest brush with the death of someone young was when my college roommate of 3 years killed himself 2 years after we got out of college. I'd just visited him and his family a month before that and it shocked everyone.<BR/><BR/>I still think about that fairly often even though it's been almost 20 years. He had everything to live for. He was much better looking than I am, had a beautiful girlfriend, large devoted family, brilliant with math, great personality. In cases like that you always wonder why. And while he took his one life, the same question arises with your friend, Diane. Why would this happen to her? Damned if I know--but it ain't frickin' fair.utenzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15988445461413550750noreply@blogger.com