tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post113900270829153840..comments2023-09-05T16:22:15.151+02:00Comments on Martinis For Two: To Plan is DivineDiane Mandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00059365308496711788noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1139336394684805352006-02-07T19:19:00.000+01:002006-02-07T19:19:00.000+01:00I absolutely hate planning so I'd not like the way...I absolutely hate planning so I'd not like the way you have your life plotted out, Diane but that's not the point. "To thine own self be true" and all that shit, if someone wants to date you then they have to understand that they need to accomodate your existing life and personality.<BR/><BR/>Caveat emptor!utenzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15988445461413550750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1139318464338854332006-02-07T14:21:00.000+01:002006-02-07T14:21:00.000+01:00JUNEBUG CALLED ME A SLACKER!!!! WTH???Just kidding...JUNEBUG CALLED ME A SLACKER!!!! WTH???<BR/><BR/>Just kidding! LOL<BR/><BR/>Well I think what really helps me is that my wife plans stuff out A LOT. So she keeps me in check. So it all works out.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11305616309339623632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1139261662756683582006-02-06T22:34:00.000+01:002006-02-06T22:34:00.000+01:00I guess I should have worded it differently. Most...I guess I should have worded it differently. Most of the people I know that are the most UNORGANIZED and unplanned people, never get anything done. And complain about it. I mean like real life stuff. Stuff you SHOULD plan for, or plan to do.<BR/><BR/>Thats why I call THEM slackers.<BR/><BR/>:O)Junie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11007938828024900942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1139260994104186112006-02-06T22:23:00.000+01:002006-02-06T22:23:00.000+01:00Well I don't think being spontaneous is the same a...Well I don't think being spontaneous is the same as being a slacker. For me everything at work is planned out weeks in advance usually. It has to be for logistics and all of that. When I get home I don't like being on a schedule for very many things. I want and like to be able to go do things when I want and how I want. I don't plan things for 2 days or weeks in advance unless it is vacation or daughter stuff or things like that. But I also don't believe I am a slacker :)<BR/><BR/>OH! And yes Diane I would say you are worth it.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11305616309339623632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-1139235906393027352006-02-06T15:25:00.000+01:002006-02-06T15:25:00.000+01:00No you have not set expectations too high. I too ...No you have not set expectations too high. I too plan WAY in advance. And most have become accustomed to that. I have one friend in San Antonio that usually on Thurs or Fri he will IM something to the effect that he'll be close to here, or am I going here, cause he is..and the answer is always no for the most part. <BR/><BR/>I think most people in general are slackers. Not in the negative sense in the word, but more like, spontaneous, and to me that means slacker :O)<BR/><BR/>Whats bad is that I am usually so set on things, that I find it extremely difficult to even accept plans for 2 days away because well, I have my own plans. Even if they are just watching Survivor or what-not. I have the whole month of February planned already.<BR/><BR/>Not to say something crazy might be thrown into the mix, but its highly unlikely.<BR/><BR/>You ARE worth the effort. I can tell. And thanks for the shout out. And you're welcome! ;O)Junie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11007938828024900942noreply@blogger.com