tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post568110981257643234..comments2023-09-05T16:22:15.151+02:00Comments on Martinis For Two: The clinicDiane Mandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00059365308496711788noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-14275480537737675482007-02-23T18:35:00.000+01:002007-02-23T18:35:00.000+01:00You really can never be too old to have growing pa...You really can never be too old to have growing pains, can you? This is such an exciting but confusing and terrifying time in your life, and while I'm so happy for you, I can also completely understand how you could have so many worries and questions right now about the unknowns. What will be, will be. You might not believe in karma, but something tells me you *do* believe in fate. Just take one thing - and one day - at a time. :o)AmyBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316872759420805485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-68299581829566445602007-02-22T14:58:00.000+01:002007-02-22T14:58:00.000+01:00wow diane do you ever have a lot of life altering ...wow diane do you ever have a lot of life altering events happening!<BR/><BR/>good luck in whatever path you decide to follow. i only had children so i would have someone to look after me when i got old and hopefully not end up in a home! LMAO! <BR/><BR/>mmollymcmohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03047898690790510124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-73281742855290640812007-02-22T12:58:00.000+01:002007-02-22T12:58:00.000+01:00I was going to say keep your eye on the balls to k...I was going to say keep your eye on the balls to keep with the baseball metaphors but thought that was tacky so I won't say it.<BR/><BR/>If you do decide to get pregnant the best thing is to relax, don't try to hard and let it happen. I think when people try to hard, then it never happens. I am speaking from experience, once with my parents, once with me. In both incidents, once an adopted child arrived, a biological one arrived 18 months later. It was all in the relaxing.running42khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11801790773966257216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-79693043515828394642007-02-22T06:22:00.000+01:002007-02-22T06:22:00.000+01:00You could always adopt, if your age becomes too mu...You could always adopt, if your age becomes too much of an issue. What foreign country are you moving to? Good luck with everything!Malnurtured Snayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03506933474730575045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-8879842318219784472007-02-22T01:33:00.000+01:002007-02-22T01:33:00.000+01:00Diane, thanks for the visit. I sure DO agree about...Diane, thanks for the visit. I sure DO agree about hats! I used to model them and I still love wearing hats, but I feel self-conscious now, unless it is very cold. I'd love for hats to come back (but not dress gloves)...LOLkenjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07342414519714356343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-42288147038498557662007-02-22T01:29:00.000+01:002007-02-22T01:29:00.000+01:00Wow. You have SO much going on, and yes, starting ...Wow. You have SO much going on, and yes, starting a family is a BIG deal in itself. <BR/><BR/>I wish you the best, and hope that everything turns out how you want it to.Desireehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09592717071227994204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-34727200886374756852007-02-22T01:17:00.000+01:002007-02-22T01:17:00.000+01:00Hey Diane, thanks for sharing something so persona...Hey Diane, thanks for sharing something so personal as this. I haven't a clue what to say abou this. Wait, my wife has two co-workers that had children in their early 40s. It can be done and you can be one of them. <BR/><BR/>Good luck to you and Max. He's not a cyclist is he? Just had to ask.eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03783658744477659987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-81974510027724384062007-02-21T21:31:00.000+01:002007-02-21T21:31:00.000+01:00Since there's a good chance you won't be working w...Since there's a good chance you won't be working while overseas, Diane--wouldn't this be a perfect time to have a child? LOL I love backseat driving!utenzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15988445461413550750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-79257176611308293042007-02-21T20:41:00.000+01:002007-02-21T20:41:00.000+01:00Repeat after me:"I am a strong, beautiful, smart a...Repeat after me:<BR/><BR/>"I am a strong, beautiful, smart and capable woman. I can get through this."Just a trumpet playerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01392398536254080285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-89033547939596979652007-02-21T20:36:00.000+01:002007-02-21T20:36:00.000+01:00Have you ever read the lists of the most stress-pr...Have you ever read the lists of the most stress-producing things you can experience? All of them are on your list of things to do, and adding a pregnancy and baby on to them all at the same time is a disaster waiting to happen. Don't let yourself be rushed into anything, especially if you are ambivalent about motherhood. It isn't fair to the child or to his father.<BR/><BR/>Whatever you decide, I wish you the best. If you are going to be planning a wedding, I have a list of good vendors I'd be happy to share with you.kenjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07342414519714356343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-47761908539833499552007-02-21T16:39:00.000+01:002007-02-21T16:39:00.000+01:00Sounds like you have a lot on your plate! Get thro...Sounds like you have a lot on your plate! Get through the psycho-parent talk and all will fall into place...if anything...speed that up post haste and be done with it!<BR/><BR/>Just sign me...bumps, bruises & broken arms thank you very much.SassyAssyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03916026186198052226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12508552.post-69556706858564764992007-02-21T14:47:00.000+01:002007-02-21T14:47:00.000+01:00oh man! best wishes to you, whatever you decide. ...oh man! best wishes to you, whatever you decide. <BR/><BR/>i'm really rooting for you, having undergone a myomectomy myself (also in 2004, strangely enough!)<BR/><BR/>be kind to yourself.zerodollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09093768792421408179noreply@blogger.com